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    7/25/2009

    侥幸心理

           搬迁的项目在操作中一直小心翼翼,尽量把过程中会发生的问题都考虑周全,但昨天发生的由于欠租导致无法按时搬迁的结果,令自己一下子觉得很愧疚,很失落,仿佛已经把球带到龙门前,却一脚射偏了,就在最后一刻,不仅让项目的质量受损,让项目组成员感到沮丧,也让所有人被动地接受延迟搬家的后果,在此我得深刻检讨,为何会出现这样的结果。 最重要的原因,也是之前我们一直强调的原因,就是自己的侥幸心理在作祟,以为事情的发展不会朝着最坏的方向,以为可以混水摸鱼,以为可以神不知鬼不觉,以为运气好,总是用“应该”“可能”的字眼来考虑问题,归根结底,还是一种赌博心态,赌这个结果应该不会降临到我的头上,殊不知,如果不事先预防,事情一定会朝着最坏的方向发展。其实自己在之前也有碰到过类似的由于侥幸心理导致做砸事情的经历,但为何会重复犯错呢?我觉得,一是因为好赌,二是因为对自己的宽容。无论哪个原因,都是负向思维的结果,为了消除这种负向思维,唯有自己不断反省,立项之初就给自己订出一些规则,在操作每个项目过程中都要不断进行阶段性的反省,项目完结后也要总结。改掉一个坏习惯,比做成10个项目还重要。
     
          以此警醒自己。

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    HEE ZHUwrote:
    哥哥 似乎这番说话想讲了好久一样。
    July 26

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